Ever since I started dressing myself at the tender age of 7 years old, I have never matched, in fact I would always purposely mismatch my clothes to express how different I was. I didn’t understand the importance of doing that, until now. In a society where trends define who some people are, it’s difficult sometimes to remain, well different. Lately, I have been thinking how I want to live my life. especially since I’m about to graduate college in May. It’s so easy to just want to conform and do what everyone else does, but is that any fun? Nah. I have made my mind up that I’m going to live my the way I see it; no more saying yes to everyone’s request, no more confusing being busy with living a productive life and certainly no more comparing my body to others. I take this approach to my style as well, I like to think that the younger Jasmine remained true to her style, and that makes me smile from ear to ear. I have never dressed to get validation from other people, I’ve always dressed according to what I felt was right within myself. The ripped jeans I have on, are my favorite, I got them from New York & Company a couple years and later decided to cut them up. And those bright shoes? I’ve had my eye on them, they meshed perfectly with this edgy, casual look.
Anyway, there was this book I read last year called “You are a Badass: How to stop Doubting your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life,” that woke me up to how I approached life. One quote that stuck with me was that “Our subconscious mind, on the other hand, is the non-analytical part of our brain that’s fully developed the moment we arrive here on earth.” That’s how I want to live my life, I’m usually overthinking something and that is not a healthy way to go about living life. I want to embrace where I am in life, even though I am not certain of where I’ll end up next, I will not conform to that way of thinking anymore.
Thanks for reading loves.
Style Details:
Ripped Skinny Jeans- New York & Company
Olive Green Sweatshirt- Forever 21 Plus
Neon Colored New Balances- Journey’s
Gold Rope Necklace Chain- Fresh Kinks
Cheetah Print Scarf- Charlotte Russe
Gradient Round Sunglasses- Forever 21
Photography by- It’s Sofia Emm
I need to read that book. Love the jeans
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Thank you and yes the book has been very influential in my career choices.
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Thank you! The book has been very influential in my career choices.
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I love the cutout of the jeans. A great way to stand out. I am a fan of New York & Company. I purchase most of my outfits from them. Their pants are very comfortable and perfect for curvy women. Great post!
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Thank you for staying true to who YOU are and not how society wants you to be! It’s so boring to be like everyone else. Love your outfit as always!
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Sounds like I need to get this book! I love your approach to life and style. Who are these people we need to conform to anyway…psh! I love this look, especially the jeans!
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Girl this speaks to me. I love not matching!!! Sending you high fives and love the outfit!! ❤
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Sending you high fives back hun!
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Some of my favorite outfits have been the ones that are a bit mismatched! Thanks for the reading suggestion – I am always looking for a great book! And those shoes are awesome – I live in my New Balances. They are so comfortable and love the colors of yours!
xx, Emily | Something Gold, Something Blue
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Those are the best!
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